Dark Castle - Sin 
BDSM Canada & Training

Humiliating a Slave

by Aramock Nanuck

                   May 2021

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Safe, sane, consensual erring on the side of caution is essential to a strong, continuously beneficial lifestyle relationship. Masochists and humiliation sluts (regardless of gender) still require these factors when engaging in fetish activities. This is even more true when using humiliation as a form of punishment. However, in recent exchanges with a prospective sub, errors occurred when attempting to protect them. The primary mistake was not letting them receive the full-on degradation that they craved. Believing it is unhealthy to unwind totally, the subject's dignity is contrary to their desires and clearly showed the arrogance I displayed in overlooking their need for this. Therefore, I have revised my thinking and proposed humiliation forms by degree of intensity.

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The first and simplest form of humiliation is merely to have the enslaved person thank you for their use, abuse, and any humiliations delivered and reassert their value at the bottom of the tier. This is essential in enforcing the power dynamic between a Dominant and the subject(s) under them.

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​Mild

• Asking permission before doing something mundane.

• Assuming a formal position (i.e., Nadu) when arriving in the presence of or contacting their Dominant.

• Being spoken to or addressed in the third person or as IT.

• Denial of bathing or cleaning themselves for three to five days in a row.

• Doing domestic chores wearing only a collar with ankle wrist restraints.

• Not wearing underwear to the gym or when doing sports in a public setting.

• Record a regular naked workout routine on camera.

• Report each time you complete an assigned task.

• Refer to themselves as it or with self-derogatory terms in a public setting.

• Stop wearing a given article of clothing for an extended amount of time.

• Send an email each day to their dominant of all the

  • Fetish and assigned tasks they completed.

  • Mistakes, breaches of protocol or failures to comply.

• Wear a fetish collar in public.

• Wear a triskelion and slave insignia as jewelry in public.

• Wear beach wear or clothes which are too small or revealing in a public setting.

• Wear bondage to bed.

• Wearing only the clothes approved by a Dominant; otherwise, remain naked.

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Intermediate

• Dress in clothes that expose genitals and nipples when caught in the wind, bending over or sitting with legs apart in public.

• Eat or drink from a bowl on the ground in a public or fetish setting.

• Present themselves on cam for the inspection of their Dominant.

• Recording and sharing with their Dominant
  • Drinking their urine.

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    Drinking their urine.

    Reciting a specific mantra while fucking themselves,

  • Rubbing of a heating creme on genitals in advance of a session or fetish events,

  • Suck on a toy or root vegetable as if were a cock,

  • The slave videoed them masturbating.

  • Trying to insert a toy too large for a given orifice.

  • Wear a butt plug somewhere out of the house or on an errand. 

• Set up an anonymous account on a porn site and upload sexual or use pictures of yourself in a fetish setting.

• Sleep in a dog cage naked.

• ​Under their clothes, when in public, wear genital clamps or weights.

• Write insults and use statements on their body with a sharpie.

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Severe

• Clean a toilet rim with their tongue.

• Have genitalia pierced in a public shop. 

• Have a slave offer themselves for use or abuse in a semi-public setting to strangers.

• Leaving something that clearly belongs to a slave of a kinky nature in a common space where those knowing them will see.

• Masturbate in a semi-public setting.

• Sexually satisfying a stranger under the watchful eyes of their Dominant.

• Shave their head bald.

• Wear a sign in public to disgrace themselves or request abuse from bystanders.

• Wear dried cum or piss on their face or clothes in public.

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