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Aftercare

· Aftercare 101

· Aftercare For Dominants

· Coping With Emotional Subdrop

· Dom Drop

· How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

· Online Aftercare

· sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

· Subdrop and Aftercare

· Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

· Consent & BDSM

· Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

· 7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

· 12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

· 25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

· 30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

· 45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

· 50 Rules for Daddies

· 100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

· 101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

· Alternative Names For “Daddy”

· Alternative Domme Titles

· Aspects Of Control

· Asserting Ownership - Rules

· Daddy Up!

· Defining A Daddy Dom

· Dominants Need Training Also

· Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

· Help For New Doms

· How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

· How To Be A Good Dominant

· How to Find a Submissive

· Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

· New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

· Observations On Doms By A Submissive

· So you want to be a Dom?

· So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

· Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

· The Dom Commandments

· Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

· What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

· What does the title Daddy mean?

· What is a Daddy Dom?

· What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

· What It Means To Be A Dominant

· What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

· 6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

· 7 Common Types of Submissives

· 10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

· 10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

· 11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

· 26 Baby Girl Jobs

· 50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

· A Bottom’s Responsibility

· A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

· A Man Who Knows You…

· A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

· Acid Test For Subs

· Ask A Million And One Questions

· Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

· Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

· Care and feeding of Daddies

· Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

· Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

· Feminist Submissive

· Finding Your Dominant

· Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

· Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

· How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

· “How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

· How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

· How To Find A Dom

· How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

· I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

· Novice Submissives

· Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

· Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

· Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

· Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

· Submissive Pride

· Submissive Traits - Intelligence

· Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

· What is a Little?

· When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

· Why I call him Daddy

· Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

· 10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

· Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

· How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

· Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

· Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

· The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

· BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

· Body image & BDSM

· How to Get Over Feeling Sad

· Is BDSM normal?

· Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

· Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

· Meditation And Mindfulness

· On Cutting

· Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

· Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

· Tips for Recovering from Codependency

· What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

· Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

· 10 Habits of Happy Couples

· 10 Top Communication Mistakes

· 10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

· 12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

· 50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

· BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

· BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

· Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

· Communication Is Key

· Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

· Daddy Doms and their little girls

· Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

· Date Night In A Jar

· DD/lg In Public

· D/s and Domestication

· Factors That Make A Relationship

· Finding Love When You Least Expect It

· Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

· How To Be Present In Your Relationships

· How To Build A Healthy Relationship

· How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

· How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

· How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

· Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

· Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

· Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

· Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

· Searching for a D/s partner?

· Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

· Stop Arguments Before They Start

· The Rewards of a Submissive

· Types Of Relationship Insecurity

· Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

· What Is Real Love?

· When He Doesn’t Call

· Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

· Another life ruined because of the morality police

· Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

· Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

· Limits in BDSM

· What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

· 10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

· 10 Steps To Self Care

· 10 Ways To Be Happy

· 10 Truths To Live By

· Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

· How to be Yourself

· How To Deal With Your Enemies

· How To Ignore Haters

· How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

· How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

· Slut Shaming Explained

· Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

· What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

· 50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

· Basics of Breath Play

· D/s or Kinky Sex?

· Fetishes Explained

· How To Make A Girl Squirt

· How To Tell Your Son About Sex

· Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

· Sensual Biting

· Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

· Sex: Practical Details

· Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

· So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

· Squirting Educational Video

· Squirting Notes

Toys

· Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

· BDSM on a budget

· Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

· 10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

· 30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

· 40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

· Age Play: A Short Guide

· BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

· DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

· Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

· Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

· Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

· Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

· Glossary of BDSM Terms

· Guide To Blood Play

· Guide To Bruising

· Guide To Talking Dirty

· Guide To Wax Play

· How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

· How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

· How To Make A Comfort Box

· Introduction To BDSM

· Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

· Punishments in BDSM Relationships

· Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

· Some Thoughts On Rules

· The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

· The Need For Rules and Discipline

· Topping from the bottom