These changes to the Library For Kinksters were completed by DominantLife on Tumblr.com Here is the update…
Aftercare
· Coping With Emotional Subdrop
· Dom Drop
· sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
· 7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
· 12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
· 25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
· 30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
· 45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
· 100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
· 101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
· Alternative Names For “Daddy”
· Dominants Need Training Also
· Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
· How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
· Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
· Observations On Doms By A Submissive
· So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
· Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
· Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
· What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
· What does the title Daddy mean?
· What It Means To Be A Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
· 6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
· 7 Common Types of Submissives
· 10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
· 10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
· 11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
· 50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
· A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
· Ask A Million And One Questions
· Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
· Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
· Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
· Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
· Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
· Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
· How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
· “How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
· How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
· How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
· I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
· Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
· Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
· Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
· Submissive Traits - Intelligence
· Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
· When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Long Distance Relationships
· 10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
· Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
· How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
· Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
· Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
· The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
· BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
· Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
· Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
· Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
· Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
· Tips for Recovering from Codependency
· What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Relationships
· 10 Top Communication Mistakes
· 10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
· 12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
· 50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
· BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
· BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
· Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
· Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
· Daddy Doms and their little girls
· Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
· Factors That Make A Relationship
· Finding Love When You Least Expect It
· Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
· How To Be Present In Your Relationships
· How To Build A Healthy Relationship
· How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
· How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
· How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
· Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
· Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
· Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
· Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
· Searching for a D/s partner?
· Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
· Stop Arguments Before They Start
· Types Of Relationship Insecurity
· Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
· Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
· Another life ruined because of the morality police
· Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
· Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Self Improvement
· 10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
· Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
· How To Deal With Your Enemies
· How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
· How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
· Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
· What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
· 50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
· How To Tell Your Son About Sex
· Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
· Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
· So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Toys
· Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
· Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
· 10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
· 30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
· 40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
· BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
· DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
· Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
· Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
· How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
· How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
· Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
· Punishments in BDSM Relationships
· Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
· The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility