Kinky Evolution

Transformations

Our development is one of constant change, nothing more radical than the changes people make to the lifestyle. It is these changes by which others define us and in retrospect, we define ourselves as we look back through the eyes of others.

Ranks, Titles and Hierarchies

The organization of the lifestyle means that in larger communities there is a form or structure to the ranking of both supplicants and dominants.  See here for details.

Ownership Plans

An example of the mechanism for taking possession of a submissive with instructions for both sides.

From Domme to Submissive

Evolution is the normal chain of events, hence the submissive becoming a switch, then a domme. However, the trend of late has seen the reverse of this occuring essential Dommes becoming submissive.

Power Dynamics & Heirarchies

Our development is one of constant change, nothing more radical than the changes people make to the lifestyle. It is these changes by which others define us, and in retrospect, we define ourselves as we look back through the eyes of others.

Integrating Family with Lifestyle living

Family ties, children and the BDSM lifestyle are factors that usually do not combine. However, difficult as it is  there are ways to make it work if you are willing.

Recently asked how do I justify a poly relationship and isn't it impossible to make work? difficult yes, jealousy can ruin it but it can be made to work.

Why Poly?

BDSM & Pornography

Challenges in Becoming a Slave

The BDSM lifestyle has become a mainstay of much of the adult entertainment industry focusing on themes entailing Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. 

An honest discussion of the types of challenges, choices and things to expect in becoming a lifestyle slave.