by Aramock Nanuck
As with all things, plans tend to change once parties interact. But here is a simplified structure that should help with your deciding to acquire and integrate a new submissive into your household. This document is a short version; the entire agreement will specify complete details and be shared upon meeting.
Preparation and Dissolution
All people have many aspects of their lives which are governed by vanilla events and such:
Closing bank accounts,
Disposing of assets,
Leaving an old or starting a new job,
Ending a lease,
Even the need to relax, unwind and visit old friends or say goodbye to family.
Plan for these things long before either party considers the actual transfer and assumption of ownership. Vanilla folks have the luxury to go back and continue or undo things, whereas those in a Dom/sub relationship essentially do not. It is critical to resolving the items which bind one or the other to a particular setting before taking on this new adventure.
Identifying and defining those things needed completing by both before commencing is a mandatory step, frequently overlooked by one or both parties. Hiding the fact there is outstanding rent due, or some other item only undoes trust if it comes up later.
The first and foremost thing is to establish a level of comfort with each other. Gauge if an open and honest dialogue is possible. The whole relationship needs trust as a foundation. The most significant impediment to such is poor communication or dishonesty.
Understanding how people act and react in a vanilla setting will indicate their personality and attitudes in private. Articulate the scope of the relationship from both perspectives and any limits if overlooked during prior communications.
Essentially both parties need to see how committed each other are to the relationship and accept the terms of the change and steps about to undertake. Be sure there is a sense that the other party is as portrayed but will continue throughout the subsequent interactions and exchanges. Expect this to be a drawn-out process and may take hours over many sessions to ensure each party is whom they say they are and understand the roles expected of them.
A Submissive's Assets
There more difficulty if the submissive has property or assets with which to content. Before the date of the initiation, the submissive must:
Have arranged a blind trust to manage the assets or property until the end-date of the proposed agreement, or
Transferred or sold such items to the third party, or
Donated to an identified charity, or
Arrange the transfer of title to the proposed new owner on the execution of the contract.
The submissive must raise ownership of anything at this point for inclusion of the contract until the termination date.
Assuming a decision to proceed occurs now, the actual lifestyle events commence. This milestone is where the dominant will engage the submissive in a series of trials, qualifiers and sessions to confirm each other's acceptance and acceptance of the terms of reference.
First and foremost, there needs to be ritual punishment to establish if both parties can accept the discipline required to solidify the relations. More importantly, it allows the submissive to understand the dominant's style of punishment and the dominant to understand the submissives capacity for pain. Follow this act with cavalier comments and almost insulting remarks to assess humility. Frequently it is at this point that language issues appear which need addressing. Equally, it is a test of both parties in the eyes of the other.
It is essential, at this point, to remove any benefit of the doubt previously established and assume nothing as the testing continues. Faults should be punishable, and if the individual is unwilling to accept this, they are not submissive. The critical act of punishing determines whether each party is worthy in the eyes of the other and hence will abide by the contract.
The terms of reference and conditions of the submission form the basis of the codified agreement or contract. The dominant should formally present the accord in front of witnesses to assure its signing is free from coercion or interference.
The Dominant will make the offer by reading aloud the key. Upon completion of the reading, both parties shall sign the undertaking. Then using a sharp, sterile knife, open a cut on their thumb and seal the offer with a bloodstained thumbprint, then giving the agreement to the submissive.
According to the terms listed, the submissive shall verbally state their agreement to the terms and acknowledge their surrender to the Dominant. The submissive shall sign the contract and also affix their bloodied thumbprint as a seal.
Upon completing the signing, the submissive shall surrender all identity and travel documentation to the new owner as an act of submission. This act denotes that the individual acknowledges needs no identity other than defined by its owner. It also acknowledges that its freedom of movement restricts what its owner establishes. At this point, the submissive will never speak first but only address owners when spoken to, and then in a clear, distinct and candid manner.
The property shall then be used or shared as its owner sees fit within the terms established within the contract. Any misuse of the submissive restricted by the agreement shall nullify the deal. Nullification results in shredding the agreement and the removal of the submissive from the presence of the dominant. After that, any rights for self-determination other than those stipulated by the agreement vanish. The submissive should consider themselves slightly better than pets, more akin to slave and less as social companions.
Once the agreement is signed, the relocation of the submissive is at the sole discretion of the Dominant. The submissive shall accompany the owner or whomever else the owner delegates without question or compromise. The Dominant shall honour any standing request for a couple or family unit to keep together. However, the household is considered a single entity within the relationship.
Return to Domicile
The submissive shall assume responsibility for all luggage and serve ultimately in all manner as domestic, public and private. The submissive shall travel in coach class regardless of the level of travel of their Dominant. The submissive shall travel back to the Dominant's residence with whatever layovers as necessary. During the layover, the submissive shall maintain specified levels of protocol and etiquette. If asked, the submissive shall state they travel as a private aide of the dominant depending on the circumstances and act accordingly.
The submissive shall immigration and customs with or adjacent to the Dominant depending on the country's rules entered. The submissive shall explain either:
If holding pre-arranged visas that they are domestic help joining their employer
If only on a tourist visa or having none, they arrive as "guests" and stay within the agreed limit set.
In cases with a tourist or no visa, the Dominant shall apply for a long-term visa after the arrival and have it processed separately. This process requires the submissive shall NOT seek other employment during this transition period to not affect the visa processing. The actual execution of the visa may require that the submissive leave the country of residence and have the visa fulfilled elsewhere; the Dominant shall oversee such needs as necessary.
As property, the submissive functions in much the same manner as slaves during Roman times. The Dominant operated a dungeon facility for the local S&M community. The primary focus outside of serving the Dominant is the smooth operation and maintenance of this facility. The continued expectation of the submissive is as full-service slaves for the household throughout the term of the agreement.
Unless otherwise excluded by the agreement, the submissive shall consider themselves sexual playthings for the pleasure of their owners. At times submissives will serve guests and friends within the household. Again, unless explicitly defined by the agreement, the sexuality of a submissive is pan-sexual. Any refusal to accommodate anyone the dominant deems worthy will result in public humiliation and punishment with little regard for your emotional well-being.
The submissive shall remain primarily nude at home, and the wearing of clothing shall be as given and instructed. A lack of instruction requires nudity.
The assigned tasks and training sessions will occur daily at a set time. A failure to complete them will result in punishment. Understand that the Dominant expects the submissive to fail in some way requiring discipline. As the Dominant is sadistic in demeanour, this is considered a pleasure for them.