Protocol, Etiquette and Structure
BDSM versus Abuse
Initiating a New Slave
BDSM is not abuse but a form of extreme concesnual activities where by mutual agreement acts deemed violent can be engaged in as a form of pleasure.
In BDSM the act of claiming someone as property is synomous with a "man taking a wife" in days of old. It is the act of possessing.
The harsh realities of initiations within the lifestyle as they effectively become hazing rituals for the entrants
Rules vs Etiquette
Creating Your Own Rules
An intelligent approach behind creating rules that are workable and meaningful.
Rules must be consistent and published to be fairly applicable. The rules of the house here in Dark Castle are thus...
The rules you define say as much about you and your mind as they tell the other how to react. How you define them is as important as what they are.
Rules as I Submit
Rules when Serving Functions
These rules were developed and proposed by slaves themselves and presented as an alternative to ones a master may develop.
The basic set of rules developed within Dark Castle over the years which guide the activities of the lifestyle.
There are special conditions, rules, and protocols when in a public or event setting. These rules are simple and ensure the most pleasant of functions.
The basic meet and greet for fetishists is like all things in the lifestyle bound by rules, these are ours.