Psychology of BDSM
Sane Relative to BDSM
How Sanity is measured in the lifestyle and the struggle / fears for their sanity people have as they become involved.
BDSM and Mental Control
Limitations of reprogramming requires “the Happiness Hypothesis” where fulfillment comes as result of submission and decisions become difficult if not downright painful.
Fetishes
Those images, activities or situations which makes your body tingle, your mind jump to conclusion and excites the imagination.
A Thinker's Guide to BDSM
The mind is a terrible thing ... to waste, and we always misuse what we do not understand. So understanding the psychology behind how BDSM works... helps us understand our place in it.
The Act of Surrender
The act of surrender (true submission) can equally be filled with apprehension, trepidation, and fear; as well as being exhilarating, uplifting (and yes) truly liberating.
Edging and Orgasm Control
Edging is a process to keep their submissive eager and horny. Direct genital stimulation is halted just at the “edge” of orgasm; hence the term.
BDSM Psychology - 201
Self-control is the essential elements which make one dominant. It is the true difference to the vanilla world.
Hypnosis as Aid to Control
An introduction to hypnosis, and how to use it to improve the control over people.
Controlling a Slave Diet
A tongue in cheek look at feeding and discipline of slaves through treating them like pets.
Orgasm Denial as a Tool
A blunt discussion on orgasm denial as a tool for domination and the differences as a solely sexual act.
Meditation
The fetish lifestyle has added anxieties over the vanilla living that need addressing. Meditation gives the control back to the individual.
Dispelling the misconceptions of those joining the lifestyle. Some ideas are drawn from popular literature, some from a lack of understanding or simple self-deception.