Psychology of BDSM

Sane Relative to BDSM

How Sanity is measured in the lifestyle and the struggle / fears for their sanity people have as they become involved.

BDSM and Mental Control

Limitations of reprogramming requires  “the Happiness Hypothesis” where fulfillment comes as result of submission and decisions become difficult if not downright painful.

A Thinker's Guide to BDSM

The mind is a terrible thing ... to waste, and we always misuse what we do not understand. So understanding the psychology behind how BDSM works... helps us understand our place in it.

BDSM Psychology - 201

Self-control is the essential elements which make one dominant. It is the true difference to the vanilla world.

The Act of Surrender

The act of surrender (true submission) can equally be filled with apprehension, trepidation, and fear; as well as being exhilarating, uplifting (and yes) truly liberating.

​

Controlling a Slave Diet

A tongue in cheek look at feeding and discipline of slaves through treating them like pets.

Hypnosis as Aid to Control

Orgasm Denial as a Tool

An introduction to hypnosis, and how to use it to improve the control over people.

​

A blunt discussion on orgasm denial as a tool for domination and the differences as a solely sexual act.

Fetishes

Those images, activities or situations which makes your body tingle, your mind jump to conclusion and excites the imagination.

Edging and Orgasm Control

Edging is a process to keep their submissive eager and horny.  Direct genital stimulation is halted just at the “edge” of orgasm; hence the term.

Meditation 

The fetish lifestyle has added anxieties over the vanilla living that need addressing. Meditation gives the control back to the individual.

​

Dispelling the misconceptions of those joining the lifestyle. Some ideas are drawn from popular literature, some from a lack of understanding or simple self-deception. 

Common Misconceptions