After-Care

Yes, the first section on punishment is about how to care for someone after they have been punished.  Essential know what you have to do to compensate for what you did before your start. Sort of like a BOYSCOUT, you need to be prepared for the treatment of injuries, and emotional well-being of your submissive/slave/masochist to support the continuation of said experiences. A dominant may need a prescription for spray Novacaine, it is the most effective topical anesthetic as it relieves to overt sensitivity and used to numb genitals so people do not cum. Many doctors will prescribe this for that purpose.

 

Being a Boy Scout

The Dominant needs to go to the pharmacy and get a bottle of baby rash ointment or heat chaffing crème, the medicated type preferably with a mild aesthetic in it.  Tell the pharmacist the Dominant has a child with a severe diaper/heat rash and they are in quite a bit of suffering.  The Dominant also should buy some latex gloves in sterile packs and light gauze. 

 

To avoid infection put on the gloves, and apply the ointment to the gauze, then gently lay them over the striations. If the skin is cut do not use the gauze but rub the ointment over the striations.  If possible, have a bottle of spray novocaine which is excellent to take the sting out of the harshest of marks. 

 

Never use equipment which is in need of repair.  Keeping items serviceable keeps them safe to use, and more importantly, keeps the acts sane and sensible.

 

Avoid Feeling Inexperienced

Avoid feeling like an inexperienced Dom/Domme do not disregard this phase but if the Dominant going to play with a recipient then this is critical. The Dominant need to make sure the recipient has found total satisfaction in what the Dominant delivers. Secondly, the punishment the Dominant issues to the recipient is very much an act of dominance, control, and fulfillment of the recipient’s needs. Yet it has severe sexual overtones and these should not be missed. Thirdly, the conclusion of the punishment is only half of the process.  The rest of the process is very much about the bonding that comes from this and as a result of the structure of after-care which highlights those bonds.

 

Meat or Matters

Sometimes the Dominant’s when submissive has been punished, suffering and in pain, it can visualize itself as worthless and mere meat.  If the Dominant ignore this then the feelings will persist, deepen and eventually turn quite negative inside the individual.  The Dominant have an opportunity to relieve this and in the process take away their pain as easily as the Dominant gave. This is where the real gift lies, and the point at which it may manifest in sexual desire.

 

Many slaves actually get turned on by the punishment, bet lose all resistance or inhibitions when aftercare commences. They say that punishment heightens their need to serve and must be mirrored by the joy of the Dominant receives. So the Dominant should always cuddle, kiss and cosset in the final stage of aftercare with the recipient. This recognizes that discipline does not end when the last spank has been delivered.

 

Emotional Attachment through Care

Hence the recipient’s aftercare is crucial in the case trying to build an emotional attachment. The Dominant should always use encouraging and meaningful words through discipline, this in effect starts the aftercare before the punishment ends. Remind the recipient that it was a sexual experience for the Dominant and her submission and receiving of her punishment where she did no wrong to deserve it was a gift of the highest order and so aroused the Dominant.  Let the recipient know as of this offer now the Dominant wish to care for the recipient, and let the Dominant soothing efforts show the recipient is loved. Many recipients go into subspace during a session and therefore need gently bringing down after a session. The red mist clear's slowly from the recipient's mind and the Dominant should provide a comforting arm to support the recipient on the return form this state.

 

Making it Effective

Addressing this from the recipient’s perspective. Recently, recently I trained a new Dominant and slave in the art of sexual punishment over the weekend.  The slave was a true pain slut and took to it with relish. The Dominant was extremely reluctant to punish a slave without cause. So many a barriers had to be overcome. I actually provided the first three punishments, before the Dominant realized after each session during the aftercare, the recipient always desire to have anal sex as a reward. They both the value/ joy of ass to mouth during those sessions. The Dominant realizes it was the totality of the act which so overwhelmed the recipient and the responses were in fact almost automatic in nature. The recipient humiliation came afterwards when realizing they actually desired the punisher more than their Dominant and was discussed at length. The Dominant became aware of how proud the recipient was of taking the punishment and how fulfilling was the result; this more than anything broke down the last qualms about sexual punishment. The rest of the weekend I introduced them to various forms and each with the Dominant performing all of the efforts and aftercare. 

 

The funny the hanging punishment is actually the most effective in ensuring the best orgasms with that.  However, DO NOT try that unsupervised. Whenever a recipient is punished they should receive aftercare for at least as long as the duration of the punishment, and it should have to always end up with intercourse. Observer to the act should also acknowledge the recipient’s ability to receive the punishment but it is advisable to leave during any sexual acts unless invited otherwise as these are very intense moments for both Dominant and recipient. The Dominant should clearly let the recipient know they are loved and was never left to think about punishment or to their own devices after the punishment.

 

Conclusion

So taking this in stride… please use the aftercare to the level the Dominant wishes, but do NOT forget it.

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