Transference of anothers Propert

Transference of Another's Property

by Aramock Nanuck

November 2019

A Private Journey

Let’s face it: almost every one of us attracted to D/s or BDSM came to it first because of exposure to some erotic imagery and the fantasy it conjured for us. Our minds wrote a story of what the images meant to us and how we fit into them.

In this lifestyle, sincere people are frequently not attracted by looks, but rather, their profile provides a hook. Those who focus on appearances rarely want to do more than look and merely gather photos for their fantasy fulfillment, which suffices. However, with faithful adherents, a cord is struck from the phrases used and the desire to explore the possibilities.

When there is a lack of complete and honest disclosure, the challenges manifest themselves in the original interests. The weakness or typical nature of a profile, or the subsequent failure to disclose a factor regarding a current situation, compounds the loss of faith. It becomes worse when dominants are nothing more than players or submissives, becoming mere fantasy seekers, or worse. Avoiding disenchantment is challenging, but it is usually worthwhile.

The Start

For many, that first exposure occurred at a relatively young age and sparked something within them that has remained with them over the decades. Whether one identifies with submissiveness or Dominance, some view these images through their respective lenses and evoke emotions and physical responses within themselves.

For some, it is simply sexual excitement, while for others, it is something far deeper and more visceral: a yearning, a longing, a need. Still, others find any introduction to BDSM downright disgusting and degrading or simply not to their liking. And you know what? That’s okay, and not everyone needs to be kinky. And one person's kink may not be another's, but so long as we don't judge, it is okay.

Submission, Domination and Transference

Submissives usually become attracted to the lifestyle because of a specific fetish. Many people join websites, chat forums, etc., mainly to find a Master who shares interests, needs and desires in common.

Sensual Domination

To illustrate how to use heightened sexual states in Sensual Domination, imagine me having a simple lunch with the two of you for our first face-to-face meeting.

The process of triggering the anticipation and nervousness, heightened sexual response is related to “stoking the fire.” I have written several blog articles about these concepts. A basic idea of building up intense sexual anticipation within a submissive is to give your wife various tasks to complete over several days in preparation for a face-to-face meeting. The basic goal is to pique your subject's mental curiosity and arousal.

In addition, a precondition is not allowing them to pleasure themselves in any way for many days in advance of the meeting. This will ensure they are in a heightened state of denial and desire, coupled with a natural response to commands.

For Females

Triggering fear and danger with sexual urgency requires waiting for dessert to instruct her to leave the table for the Ladies’ Room to remove her panties. She will look to you for support. At this point, nod to her and give a non-verbal agreement. Subconsciously, this is a straightforward transference of authority as is possible. The Dom will hand her a paper bag to put them in.

She will return her pussy and ass bare and fully accessible. Returning the bag to the dominant who peers inside:

If she folded the items neatly, then she completely submitted them.
If she crumpled the things, then she still resists domination.
This kind of naughty, blatant sexual behaviour in public is completely contradictory to the upbringing and conduct expected of most "Good Girls," regardless of culture or ethnicity.
This instantly pushes the taboo buttons for heightened submissive and sexual responses.

The stage is set for domination. The individual is now expecting your acceptance. They will wish to discover shared interests, needs and desires.

For Males

Males have a stronger sense of will and tend to be conditioned to be resistant by society unless coming from either female-dominated or abusive households. The control begins by overcoming this sense of will and ensuring they have a sense of anticipation and the unexpected.

For All Genders

Know in advance what food they dislike and order it for them; insist they eat it and show their appreciation of the item by savouring it. When ordering a dessert, do so only for yourself, denying the submissive a "treat." Relish and remark on the deliciousness of it.

This is where you will see their willingness to accept their lot or rankle over the obvious slight shown to them. The submissive will clearly display their inner need to satisfy their Dominant or wish to assert their will. Any comments or challenges should be expressed politely yet firmly.

Follow-Up Stages

Triggering the shock, surprise, or pain-heightened sexual response is the simplest and instinctual for most Doms. A general rule for all kink sessions is to have the subject beg permission to orgasm or be severely punished. I invariably refuse the first request to exert control to increase the urgency of the sexual imperative. Frequently, I refuse successive requests until I see the physical and hear the verbal desperation. Then, I deliberately inflict intense pain.

The sudden, intense pain is completely unexpected, which causes a complete loss of control and usually a massive orgasm. The mental link between pain and pleasure is now clearly registered. The resulting orgasms tend to be mind-bogglingly epic. Once starting to cum, I continue stimulation which forces multiple orgasms that never accompany self-satisfaction. This permanently releases the “eager inner vixen” within the subject and leaves cause to punish for the failure to "please me" as they demonstrate being a "selfish slut"!