Fetish Living Considerations

Finding A Good Property
The approach to selecting a proper property or facility for living a BDSM lifestyle.
Rediscovery of Kink
The real history of men viewing women as property . How that view changes with modern times, and particularly the post 50/60's revolutions. Then how it is slowly reverting back to norms that existed for 1,000s of years..
Managed Orgasm
HRM in Dark Castle Sin
A tongue in cheek application of HR rules in a BDSM setting.
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The 5-Rs of BDMS Relationships
A view of the importance and how to implement the 5 Rs, Rituals, Routines, Randomness, Recording and Reaction within a BDSM relationship.
Mindsetting
Concepts to Consider
Very brief comments which may result in answering or asking questions.
Privacy & Dignity
Have no doubt that a Master is the sole custodian of a slave's privacy and dignity; it is theirs give or take away as they see fit.
Post-Possession
Expectations
A refreshing and irreverent look at why have dominant's control a submissive's orgasms!
Establishing the mindset of both the Dominant and Submissive in a genuine lifestyle relationship.
There are numerous things to expect which differ from Dominant to Dominant and slave to slave.
What I Seek
Rage Has NO Place in BDSM
Frequently I am asked what I seek, here is a high level explanation.
Rage is a very destructive force and ruins many relationships. BDSM is particularly vulnerable to its effects.. This is a brief on its effects and a few coping mechanisms.